Thursday, April 9, 2026

The Golden Shore -- Parts 1 and 2: A Schaffner Family Story

After writing ABC Biography of Frederick Schaffner (1828-1899) Family of Germany, New York and San Francisco, based on my genealogical research, I asked Anthropic Claude to tell the family story of the Schaffner's migrating from New York City to San Francisco by sea. Here is the story:


(Infographic created by Google NotebookLM - Parts 1 and 2 of The Golden Shore)



The Golden Shore
A Story of the Schaffner Family

New York to San Francisco, 1855


Part One -- The Leaving

New York harbor, June 1855

The morning Frederick Schaffner decided to leave New York for good, the city smelled of fish and horse dung and something sweeter underneath — bread, perhaps, from one of the bakeries on Hester Street — and he stood at the window of their rooms on Orchard Street for a long time, breathing it in, trying to fix it in his memory like a photograph.

He was twenty-six years old. He had crossed one ocean already. He supposed he could cross another.

Behind him, Martha Matilda was folding their possessions into two leather trunks with the methodical calm she brought to everything. She was Irish, and the Irish, Frederick had observed, did not waste energy on dread. They simply got on with it. He loved her for this, among other things.

"Herman," she said, not looking up from her folding, "stop pulling at the strap, you'll break it."

Frederick looked down. His son was sitting on the floor beside the larger trunk, four years old and already in love with anything mechanical — buckles, hinges, the latch on the door, the gas lamp fixture in the hallway. Herman had his mother's dark eyes and Frederick's stubbornness, a combination that had already proven formidable.

"He can't break it," Frederick said.

"He broke the kettle," Martha Matilda said.

"That was different."

She looked up at him then, one eyebrow slightly raised in the way that meant she was not going to argue but also was not going to concede. Frederick smiled. She went back to her folding.

The passage had cost them most of what Frederick had saved from two years of cooking in various establishments along the Bowery — one hundred and twenty dollars for two adults, half price for Herman, in steerage class aboard the SS Illinois, a side-wheel steamship of the United States Mail Steamship Company departing Pier 4 on the North River at ten o'clock that morning, bound for Aspinwall on the coast of Panama. From there, they would cross the isthmus by the new railroad to Panama City, and then north on another vessel to San Francisco.

Frederick had read the advertisement in the Staats-Zeitung perhaps forty times. He had memorised it. He could recite the sailing dates and fares and the names of the agents in the way that other men memorised scripture.

He picked Herman up off the floor. The boy immediately grabbed his collar.

"Vater," Herman said. "Where are we going?"

"California," Frederick said.

"Is it far?"

"Yes."

"As far as Germany?"

Frederick considered this. He had told Herman about Germany — about Darmstadt, about the linden trees and the ducal palace and the smell of the city on a summer morning. Not that Herman would remember any of it. He had been born in New York.

"Farther," Frederick said. "But we go by ship, which is faster."

Herman seemed to find this satisfactory. He grabbed Frederick's ear instead of his collar, which was worse, but Frederick said nothing.

They carried the trunks down three flights of stairs themselves. Their neighbor Mrs. Kaufmann stood in her doorway and watched them go without speaking, which was unlike her — she was usually a woman of considerable verbal resource — and Frederick understood that she disapproved of the venture. Half the neighborhood disapproved of the venture. A man with a good situation in New York, they said, did not abandon it to chase rumors on the other side of the world. The Gold Rush was over. California was a gamble.

Frederick did not try to explain. He had tried explaining, and it hadn't helped. Some things you did not do because they made sense. You did them because you could feel, in the bones of your chest, that staying still was a kind of dying.

He picked up the smaller trunk. Martha Matilda took the larger one. Herman walked between them down Orchard Street toward the river, his hand in no one's, looking at everything.

— ★ —

The SS Illinois was not a beautiful ship, but she was big — nearly two hundred and fifty feet from bow to stern, Frederick estimated — and she sat in the Hudson like a great self-satisfied animal while a thousand things happened around her simultaneously: cargo swung aboard on cranes, passengers crowded the gangways, coal smoke thickened above her twin funnels, and somewhere below decks a steam whistle released periodic shrieks that made Herman cover his ears and laugh.

Steerage was below the waterline. Frederick had known this from the advertisement — had read the word and understood it in the abstract way you understand things you have not yet experienced — but the reality of it hit him as he descended the forward companionway with their smaller trunk under one arm and Herman's hand in his free one: the low ceiling, the smell of two hundred bodies and their possessions already close in the summer heat, the wooden sleeping shelves built two high along the hull, the single lantern swinging at the far end of the compartment.

He had crossed from Germany to New York in a ship not unlike this one. He knew what was coming.

"It's fine," Martha Matilda said, behind him. She said it the way she said most things — as simple fact, not reassurance. Frederick loved her for this too.

They found a shelf near the forward bulkhead — not the best position, he knew, for when the sea grew rough the bow moved most — but it offered a small advantage: a porthole the size of a dinner plate, filmed with salt, through which a narrow cylinder of grey harbor light fell onto the planking. Herman discovered this porthole within thirty seconds of their arrival and pressed his face against it with great concentration, as though the Hudson River were communicating something important.

"What do you see?" Frederick asked him.

"Water," Herman said. "And a bird."

"What kind of bird?"

Herman considered this with the gravity of a four-year-old confronting a serious scientific question. "A wet one," he said.

A woman across the aisle laughed — a stout German woman of perhaps fifty, with grey hair pinned severely under a black bonnet. She caught Frederick's eye and nodded.

"Erste Reise?" she asked. First voyage?

"To California," Frederick said. "Not the first time on a ship."

"Nor mine," she said. "I came over in 1838. I told myself: never again on a ship. And here I am." She shrugged with magnificent resignation. "My son is in San Francisco. He sends money."

"Mine will be in San Francisco too," Frederick said. "Someday."

He looked at Herman, who had abandoned the porthole and was now investigating the latch on their trunk with the systematic patience of a locksmith.

At ten o'clock precisely, the Illinois shuddered beneath them as her engines came alive, and the last mooring lines were cast off, and the dock and the city and the life Frederick had built there over five years began, slowly, to move away.
Part Two

Part Two -- The Caribbean Sea

Eleven days south of New York

The Atlantic treated them gently at first, which was a mercy, and then, south of Cape Hatteras, with considerably less mercy, which was not. For three days the ship rolled and plunged through heavy swells that turned steerage into something between a laundry and a hospital. The bucket at the end of the aisle became the most important object in the world, and was passed from hand to hand with a cooperation that no other circumstance could have inspired among such a varied collection of strangers.

Herman was not seasick. Frederick found this almost offensive. The boy moved through the pitching ship with unconscious ease, gripping whatever presented itself — shelf edges, belt loops, the arm of the German grandmother, who had given her name as Frau Bauer and who bore Herman's attentions with tolerant amusement — and seemed to find the whole experience merely another variety of interesting.

Martha Matilda was sick for two days and did not complain once, which Frederick thought was either saintliness or stubbornness and was probably both.

He himself managed, barely. He had managed on the Atlantic crossing from Germany too, and had sworn he would never do it again, and here he was. It seemed to be a pattern.

On the fourth day the swells subsided and the sea turned the color of deep slate and then, as they moved south, a color Frederick had no word for — a blue so saturated it looked painted, like the blue in a church window. The air changed too. It grew dense and warm and smelled of salt and something green and living underneath. Herman spent every possible hour on deck, leaning on the rail with his chin on his hands, watching the flying fish break the surface beside the bow.

"They fly," he told Frederick, with the urgency of someone reporting a miracle.

"They do," Frederick agreed.

"Why?"

Frederick thought about this. He had wondered the same thing on his Atlantic crossing and had never found a satisfactory answer. "To escape something chasing them," he said finally. "Or perhaps just because they can."

Herman absorbed this. "I would fly," he said, "if I could."

"Where would you fly to?"

Herman pointed ahead, roughly southward. "There," he said.

"That's the way we're going anyway," Frederick said.

"I know," Herman said. "But I would fly."

— ★ —

Life in steerage found its own rhythms after the first week. Frau Bauer, who had been a baker in Frankfurt, organised a small trading economy among the German passengers — a piece of sausage for a portion of hard cheese, a shirt-mending for a reading of the ship's broadsheet that was distributed every few days by one of the officers. Martha Matilda, who spoke no German but communicated with Frau Bauer through a combination of English, mime, and the universal language of shared exasperation, was drawn into this economy naturally; she could sew faster than anyone else in the compartment and her stitches were invisible.

There was an Irish family from Cork — the O'Briens, Patrick and Brigid and their three children, the oldest of whom was perhaps seven — and Martha Matilda talked with them for hours in the low voice she used when she was homesick but didn't want anyone to know it. Frederick listened sometimes without letting on that he was listening. They talked about Cork, about the crossing, about what Patrick O'Brien hoped to do in California. He wanted to work in construction. Half the men on the ship wanted to work in construction. San Francisco, from everything they'd read, was building itself as fast as men could move lumber.

"And your husband?" Brigid O'Brien asked one afternoon, nodding toward Frederick, who was sitting a few feet away mending his boot.

"He was a cook in New York," Martha Matilda said. "A good one."

"And in California?"

Martha Matilda was quiet for a moment. Frederick pretended great concentration on his boot. "Whatever is needed," she said. "He's not a man who sits still."

Frederick kept his eyes on the boot and said nothing, but he felt something warm and solid in his chest, like a coal that had been banked and was now quietly glowing.

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A work of historical fiction
Characters based on the real Schaffner family of San Francisco.
All dialogue and scenes are imagined.

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The AI Google NotebookLM Video Overview of this story is in:

This is historical fiction based on known events in the lives of my ancestors - it might have been this way. The family mentioned is my wife's ancestral family (Frederick Schaffner is her 2nd great-grandfather), and I have significant information about their lives from the available records, but know nothing about their day-to-day lives.

After I read these types of social history summaries, I wish that I could be a time traveler for one day to visit the Schaffner family in New York and San Francisco and witness their daily lives.  I'm glad that the general lifestyles and occupations are known from historical records and witness accounts.

Information like this is very helpful to add historical events and social history content to a person's biography. 

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Treasure Chest Thursday -- 1681 Baptism Record of Jane Andrews in Rushall, Wiltshire

  It's Treasure Chest Thursday - an opportunity to look in my digital image files to see what treasures I can find for my family history research and genealogy musings.

The treasure today is the 1681 Baptism record of Jane Andrews in the Rushall, Wiltshire Church of England parish records.

The baptism entry for Jane Andrews is the first record for 1681 baptisms on the page:


The transcription of this record is:

"1673 Jane y'e CDaught[er] of Robt Andrews & Frances his wife Bapt'd March 27 1681"

The source citation is:

Staverton, Wiltshire, Church of England records, Jane Andrews baptism entry, 27 March 1681, daughter of Robert Andrews and wife Frances; imaged, "Wiltshire, England, Church of England Baptisms, Marriage and Burials, 1531-1812," Ancestry.com  (https://www.ancestry.com/search/collections/61187/records/560228 : accessed 11 March 2026), Rushall  > Parish Registers > 1652-1725, image 14 of 34; Original records in Original data in Wiltshire Church of England Parish Registers, Wiltshire and Swindon History Centre, Chippenham, Wiltshire, England.

Jane Andrews was born before 27 March 1681 in Rushall, Wiltshire, the daughter of Robert and Frances (--?--) Andrews.   She married Henry Rawlins (1673-1744) on 28 January 1705 in Wilsford, Wiltshire.  Jane died before 4 September 1757 when he was buried in Wootton Rivers, Wiltshire.

Henry and Jane (Andrews) Rawlins are my 6th great-grandparents, through their daughter Elizabeth Rawlings (1714-1770) who married Joseph Richman (1710-1761) in 1731 in Whaddon, Wiltshire.

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Wednesday, April 8, 2026

Genealogy Education Bytes - Week of 2 to 8 April 2026

 Welcome to Genealogy Education Bytes, posted on Wednesday afternoon for the past week, where we try to highlight some of the most important genealogy and family history education items that came across my desktop since the last issue.




1) Upcoming Conferences and Institutes

Conference Keeper Calendar - has many links to register for and/or view seminars, conferences and institutes.

Root Cellar Spring Seminar, featuring Drew Smith, MA, MS, MS ($$, In-person, in Sacramento California) - 18 April 2026.

MGC Spring Seminar 2026: Branches & Bytes: Exploring AI in Genealogy with Steve Little and Mark Thompson ($$, In-person, in Kansas City, Missouri) - 18 April 2026.

'Navigating the Future' - Guild of One-Name Studies Conference 2026 ($$, In-person, Portsmouth, England) - 24 to 26 April 2026.

National Genealogical Society 2026 Family History Conference ($$, In-person and virtual, in Fort Wayne, Indiana) - 27 to 30 May 2026.

2 ) Upcoming Webinars and Online Classes (times are US Pacific):

Conference Keeper Calendar - has many links to register for and/or view seminars, webinars and classes.

FamilySearch MonthlyWebinars (Free)

RootsTech 2019-2026 On-Demand Sessions (Free)

* Legacy Family Tree Webinar -- Wednesday, 8 April 2026, 11 a.m.:  Advertising the Law: The Gems in the Legal Notices by Judy G. Russell.

* Legacy Family Tree Webinar -- Wednesday, 8 April 2026, 5 p.m.:  From Research to Data with AI 3 of 5: Organising Information—Tables, Tags, and Templates by Andrew Redfern.

* Legacy Family Tree Webinar -- Friday, 10 April 2026, 11 a.m.:  Black and White Southern Families in Southern Plantation Records by Ari Wilkins.

* Legacy Family Tree Webinar -- Tuesday, 14 April, 11 a.m.: 5 Ways to Use AI to Find Family in Final Records at MyHeritage by Cathy Wallace.

* Legacy Family Tree Webinar -- Wednesday, 15 April, 11 a.m.: DNA in Action 2 of 6: Writing Proofs including DNA by Karen Stanbary.

* Legacy Family Tree Webinar -- Wednesday, 15 April, 5 p.m.: From Research to Data with AI 4 of 5: Seeing Patterns—Summaries, Timelines, and Clusters by Andrew Redfern.

* Legacy Family Tree Webinar -- Friday, 17 April, 11 a.m.: Researching Métis Ancestors: Origins, Scrip, and Red River Records by Christine Woodcock.

3) Recent Podcasts:

* Ancestors and Algorithms:  
Ep. 32: Tracing Irish Ancestors With AI



4) Recent YouTube Videos


*  AIGroup Innovations LLC:  
09 AI Powered Research Insights

*  Allen County P ublic Library:  Tracing Your Irish Roots An Intro to Irish Genealogy







* Ellen Thompson-Jennings - Family History Hound:  Five Things You'll Find in Newspapers That Help Build Your Family Story






*  Genealogy Quick Start:  Clues and Maps w/ Annette Burke Lyttle, CG


*  GenTales Genealogy:  Let's Talk About Lineage Societies


* Italian Roots and Genealogy: I Traced My Sicilian Family Back to San Gervaso

*  Marcia Philbrick:  Richmond Hammond Between the Records





5) Did you miss the last post in this series -- Genealogy Education Bytes - Week of 26 March to 1 April 2026?

Read past Genealogy Education Bytes here.

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NOTE: If I missed an upcoming conference or webinar, or a useful podcast or video, in this time period, please let me know in a comment or an email.

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Life Memoir of Burgess Metcalf (1741-1816) in Piermont, New Hampshire in 1816

 I wrote an AI-assisted ABC biography for the family of my 5th great-grandparents Burges and Jerusha (--?--) Metcalf  in ABC Biography of the Burgess and Jerusha (--?--) Metcalf Family of New Englandbased on my genealogical research over 38 years. 

I wondered what Burgess Metcalf might have told his grandchildren in a life memoir in early 1816. 


(AI Google NotebookLM Infographic for Burgess Metcalf's life memoir
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1)  I requested Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 to   "Please write a life memoir for Burgess Metcalf based on the attached biography, as he might tell to his grandchildren in 1816."

2)  The AI Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 memoir (edited for accuracy and completeness) is: 


As I Remember It

The Life of Burgess Metcalf, Told in His Own Words

Piermont, New Hampshire — March, 1816

"Come, children. Pull your chairs closer to the fire. It is cold tonight, and your old grandfather has a great deal to tell you — if these lungs will hold out long enough to say it all."

Where I Come From

I was born on the twenty-eighth of August, in the year seventeen hundred and forty-one, in the town of Medway, in the Massachusetts Bay Colony. That was a different world, children — a world where the King of England still ruled these lands, and where a man's whole life might be lived and ended within ten miles of where he drew his first breath.

My father was Michael Metcalf, a solid, hard-working man. My mother was Melatiah Hamant before she married him, and they wed in Medway in the year seventeen-twenty-eight, thirteen years before I arrived. I was the seventh of eight children — the fourth son — so you can imagine the household I entered. Noisy. Full of elbows at the supper table.

My brothers and sisters were Oliver, Michael, the girl Melatiah (named for our mother), Amity, Abijah, Sarah, then me, and lastly little Silas, born four years after me in Rutland. Eight children in all. Oliver was twelve years older than me, so by the time I was walking and getting into mischief, he was practically a grown man. My sister Sarah and I were close enough in age that we kept each other company as children, though she always had more sense than I did.

My mother, God rest her, died when I was but ten years old. Seventeen fifty-one. I remember that year with a heaviness I have never fully set aside. She was forty-seven years old. After that, the house was quieter in a way that had nothing to do with noise.

My father was not a man to linger. He had mouths to feed and work to do, and he moved us all north — to Keene, in Cheshire County, New Hampshire Colony. I was about nine when we went. Keene was a young town then, carved out of the wilderness not long before. But it had good soil and good neighbors, and it was there I became a young man.

My brother Michael — two years older than Oliver, sharp and restless — he did not live to see the war's end. He died at Bennington in August of seventeen seventy-seven, fighting for the very liberty we now enjoy. I think of him whenever I watch the sun come up over the Connecticut River. He was a stubborn man and a brave one, and I miss him still.

Your Grandmother Jerusha

Now, I expect some of you have wondered where your grandmother came from, and I must tell you honestly — I have wondered the same thing myself, these forty-odd years of marriage. She does not speak much of her family, and the records, if there ever were any, I have not found.

What I know is this: she was born around seventeen fifty, somewhere in New Hampshire Colony, and she was in or about Keene when I was a young man there. I do not recall the first moment I saw her. I only recall that at some point she was simply there, and then I could not imagine a life without her.

We married before seventeen seventy. I was twenty-eight or so, she perhaps twenty. She was a quiet woman but not a weak one. Do not mistake stillness for softness, children. Your grandmother has weathered things that would have broken stouter hearts: ten children, a husband gone to war, hard winters, the death of young Joseph at only fifteen years of age. She has not complained of any of it, not once that I have heard.

Some say her name before marriage was Chandler. Perhaps it was. We named your uncle Chandler, and that may be where the notion comes from. But I will leave that mystery to those of you with the patience and cleverness to untangle it. What matters is who she is, not what she was called before she was mine.

Going to Piermont

In August of seventeen seventy-three, I purchased Lot Nine in Range One in the town of Piermont — paying seventy pounds to a man named Richard Jenness of Rye for the privilege. I was thirty-two years old, Jerusha was about twenty-three, and we already had three children underfoot: Ephraim, little Samuel, and Burgess, just turned one year old that very month.

Piermont was barely a town then. It had been established not ten years before, and the land along the River Road was raw and full of stumps and stones. There were neighbors — the Chandler family settled here too, not long after us — but it was a young community, and those of us who came early had to make it what it was.

We came by ox-cart, mostly, with what we could carry. The lot sat along the Connecticut River, and on a clear day you could see across to Vermont. I thought it was the finest piece of land I had ever laid eyes on, and I have not changed my opinion in forty-three years of looking at it.

That first winter was hard. I will not pretend otherwise. But we had built enough of a shelter before the snows came, and we had neighbors who helped, and we helped them in return. That is how it was done. That is how everything was done. A man alone on the frontier is a dead man. A man with good neighbors is a farmer.

The children kept coming, God bless them. Sally in seventy-four. Cyrus in seventy-six. Meletiah in seventy-nine. Mary — your Aunt Polly — around seventeen eighty. Joseph in eighty-one. Then a long spell, and finally your Aunt Jerusha in eighty-nine, and young Chandler, the baby of the lot, born in ninety-eight when I was already fifty-seven years old. Ten children in all. Some would say that is too many. I say it is exactly right.We lost Joseph. Fifteen years old, in March of seventeen ninety-six. I do not speak of it easily, even now. He was a fine boy. Some losses do not soften with age — they only become more familiar, like an old scar that still aches when the cold comes in.

The War

I was thirty-four years old when the trouble with England finally boiled over. The spring of seventeen seventy-five — Lexington, Concord, and then the whole thing lit like a dry field in August. I had a farm, a wife, children, and a great deal to lose. But a man cannot stand aside when his country calls. Or at least I could not.

I was commissioned an Ensign in the Fifth Company of the Twelfth New Hampshire Regiment on the fifth of September, seventeen seventy-five. Ensign — that means I carried the colors. The flag. There is a weight to that, children, that is more than the cloth itself.

I will not tell you the war was glorious. There was mud and cold and hunger, and men sick with fevers that had no business being on a battlefield. But there were also moments I would not trade for anything.

The great one came in October of seventeen seventy-seven. We marched to meet Burgoyne — General John Burgoyne of His Majesty's Army, who had come down from Canada with the intention of splitting our cause in two. He was a proud man with a great army, and we were a scrappy collection of farmers and tradesmen and men who had simply decided they had had enough.

On the seventeenth of October, at a place called Saratoga in New York, General Burgoyne surrendered his entire army to General Gates. Nearly six thousand British and Hessian soldiers, laying down their arms. I was there. I watched it happen. I cannot tell you what it felt like except to say that I understood, for the first time with my whole body rather than just my mind, that we might actually win this war.

And we did. It took several more years of suffering, but we did. France came in on our side not long after Saratoga — they had been watching, and Burgoyne's surrender convinced them we were worth wagering on. So in a way, that cold October day in New York helped win the whole thing.

I came home to Jerusha and the children and the farm on the River Road. She said nothing dramatic when I walked in. She simply put a bowl of porridge in front of me and sat down across the table and looked at me the way she always has — like she is deciding whether I am still worth keeping. I must have passed the inspection, because here I am.

Building a Town

A man does not only build a farm. He builds a community, or he does not survive. That is the lesson of the frontier, and I learned it early.

I served as Surveyor of Highways in eighty-nine — making sure the roads were kept passable, which in New Hampshire is a Sisyphean task if ever there was one. I sat as a juror in ninety-four. I helped fix the bounds of the school lands in ninety-seven and served as Moderator that same year. A Moderator runs the town meetings — makes sure men speak in turn and do not come to blows, which is harder than it sounds when the subject is taxes.

The church was the center of it all. In seventeen seventy-nine, I and many others signed a pledge to support the preaching of the Gospel in Piermont. Eighty dollars, assessed by the selectmen. It was not a small sum, but it was the right thing.

In eighteen-three, when the Congregational Church was formally organized, I was among its founding members. Your uncle John — your father's son — became a deacon there later. The faith passes down, children, if you let it. I hope you will let it.

We paid our taxes. We kept our fences. We helped our neighbors dig out after the heavy snows and we lent out our oxen when someone's team went lame. That is the whole of civic life, I think, underneath all the speechifying. You show up. You do your part. You do not ask whether you feel like it that morning.

Your father Burgess — I am proud of that boy. He took over much of the land in ninety-eight when I was getting on in years. We drew up a legal arrangement: he holds the deed, but your grandmother and I have the right to live here and work the land as long as we draw breath. Five hundred dollars was the agreed sum. It was a fair deal and a kind one, and I have never had cause to regret it.

The tax records will show you what we were, if ever you need to know. In eighteen-and-two, I had two oxen, a horse, three-year horses, cows, mowing land, tillage, pasture, buildings. A working farm. Nothing grand, but nothing shameful either. A man who can feed his family from his own ground and owe nothing to anyone is a free man. That is all I ever wanted to be.

What I Want You to Know

I am seventy-four years old as I sit here. My bones ache in the cold, and I do not sleep as well as I once did, and I find myself talking to people who are no longer living more often than I probably should. But my mind is clear, and I have not lost the thread of what matters.

Your grandmother will likely outlive me. She has always been the sturdier of the two of us, whatever it may look like from the outside. When I am gone, be good to her. Help her with what she cannot do herself. She will not ask. You must offer.

I want you to know that this land — this piece of New Hampshire on the Connecticut River — was not given to us. It was chosen, and paid for, and cleared, and farmed, and fought for. The Revolution was not a story that happened to other people. It happened to us. I was there. Your great-uncle Michael died for it. Do not take it lightly.

I want you to know that your grandmother Jerusha is the best decision I ever made, and I have made some good ones. Forty-some years of marriage and I have not grown tired of her company. That is the rarest thing in the world, children, and I want you to look for it when your own time comes. Do not settle for comfortable. Look for the person whose company you will still want when you are old and cold and losing your teeth.

I want you to know your family. Your aunts and uncles — Ephraim up in Vermont, Cyrus heading that way too, Meletiah with her thirteen little Nileses, Polly and her Underhills, young Jerusha with the Bickfords, Chandler just starting out. They are spread wide now, but they are yours. When the world is hard — and it will be hard, I promise you that — family is what you have.

And finally, I want you to know that a good life is not a dramatic one. I have seen my share of drama — war, loss, hard winters, the death of a child. But the shape of a good life is quieter than all that. It is work done honestly. It is land tended faithfully. It is a wife looked at across a table every morning for forty years and thought: yes. Still yes.

That is enough for tonight. The fire is dying down, and your grandmother is giving me the look that means I have been talking too long.

She is probably right.

She usually is.

— Burgess Metcalf, Ensign, Ret., Piermont, New Hampshire, Spring 1816

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Burgess Metcalf died 26 September 1816. Jerusha Metcalf followed him on 9 June 1817, aged 67. They rest together at River Road Cemetery, Bradford, New Hampshire.

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3)  The Video Overview of Burgess Metcalf's life memoir, created by the Google NotebookLM AI tool, is:   

4)  I edited the Claude memoir text to correct minor inconsistencies and errors. Every large language model (LLM) AI tool writes descriptive text much better than I can write. The AI tools are very perceptive, insightful and inspiring, creating engaging text in seconds, including local and national historical events and social history detail when requested.

5)  This is historical fiction, based on my own genealogical research. It is what Burgess Metcalf  might have told his grandchildren in 1816.  

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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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Ed, Janet and Peter Seaver Visit the Chamberlains in San Diego in 1944 -- (Not So) Wordless Wednesday #911

  This is a priceless (to me) image in my computer file folders: 

The people in this photograph are (left to right):
  • Emily (Richmond) Taylor (1879-1966), my grandmother's sister, holding the baby
  • Randall Jeffrey Seaver (1943-????), the baby held by Emily
  • Dorothy (Taylor) Chamberlain (1904-1988), daughter of Emily, wife of Marshall
  • Frederick Walton Seaver (1911-1983), my father, kneeling in front
  • Janet (Roukes) Seaver (1913-2002), wife of Edward Seaver, mother of Peter
  • Marcia Chamberlain (1926-2016), daughter of Marshall and Dorothy
  • Betty (Carringer) Seaver (1919-2002), my mother, wife of Frederick.
  • Peter Seaver (1942-????), son of Edward and Janet Seaver, in front held by Marshall
  • Marshasll Chamberlain (1903-1968), husband of Dorothy, father of Marcia, kneeling in front
My guess is that Edward Seaver (1913-2004), the father of Peter, husband of Janet, and brother of Frederick, took this photograph.  I think the photograph was taken in the Chamberlain back yard at 4601 Terrace Drive in San Diego. 

This photograph was taken in the summer of 1944.  Edward Seaver was in the U.S. Navy and stationed in San Diego.  Janet and Peter had flown from Massachusetts to see Edward before he was to depart for World War II in the Pacific Ocean.  

I enhanced and colorized a black-and-white photograph with the MyHeritage photo tools. 

This photograph is a part of my family history.  

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Tuesday, April 7, 2026

Genealogy News Bytes - Week of 1 to 7 April 2026

  Welcome to Genealogy News Bytes, posted on Tuesday afternoon for the past week, where we try to highlight the most important genealogy and family history news  items that came across our desktop since the last issue.    


1)  Genealogy and Family History News Articles:















4)  New or Updated Genealogy Digital Record Collections:








5)  Did you miss the last post in this series?  See Genealogy News Bytes - Week of 25 to 31 March 2026.


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