I received this parody of Clement Moore's masterpiece poem via email back in the mid-1990's, the author is unknown to me. Kimberly Powell had it on her website for years but I cannot find it now.
Genea-Musings
Welcome to my genealogy blog. Genea-Musings features genealogy research tips and techniques, genealogy news items and commentary, genealogy humor, San Diego genealogy society news, family history research and some family history stories from the keyboard of Randy Seaver (of Chula Vista CA), who thinks that Genealogy Research Is really FUN! Copyright (c) Randall J. Seaver, 2006-2024.
Wednesday, December 24, 2025
An Oldie But a Goodie -- 'Twas the Night Before a Genealogist's Christmas ...'
Genealogy Education Bytes - Week of 18 to 24 December 2025
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Memories of Thomas Richmond (1848-1917) in 1917 – A Life Memoir
I wrote an AI-assisted couple biography for my third great-grandfather John Richman (1788-1867) in ABC Biography of #10 Thomas Richmond (1848-1917) of Wiltshire, England and New England, based on my genealogical research over 38 years.
I wondered what Thomas Richmond might say in a life memoir to his grandchildren in 1917.
1) Based on the genealogical sketch, I requested Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 to create a memoir told by Thomas Richmond about his life in 1917. The prompt was: "Please write a life memoir for Thomas Richmond based on the attached biography, as he might tell to his grandchildren in 1917."
2) The AI Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 memoir (lightly edited for accuracy) is:
A Grandfather's Story
Thomas Richmond's Life Memoir to His Grandchildren
Clinton, Massachusetts - Early 1917
My dear grandchildren,
Your grandmother Annie has asked me to tell some stories from my long life, so that you children—and perhaps your own children someday—might know something of where you came from and the world I've seen change so remarkably over these nearly seventy years. I find myself here in Clinton with Annie and Walter, and while my strength is not what it once was, my memory remains clear enough to take you back to a time and place that must seem impossibly distant to you now.
The England I Knew
I was born Thomas Richman—not Richmond, mind you, but Richman—on June 16, 1848, in a small village called Hilperton in Wiltshire, England. It's difficult now to conjure the feelings of that place, for I was only eight years old when we left, but certain images remain vivid in my mind even today. I remember stone cottages with thatched roofs, narrow lanes where carts would rumble past, and the ever-present smell of coal smoke rising from chimneys. My father, James Richman, worked as a coal merchant laborer—hard, dirty work that left him exhausted at day's end but put food on our table.
My mother, Hannah Rich, was a woolen weaver. I can still picture her at her loom—though the image has surely been burnished by time—her hands moving with practiced ease as threads transformed into cloth. She would sing while she worked, old songs I've long since forgotten the words to, though sometimes the melodies still drift through my mind. It's curious, isn't it, how my entire life ended up in the woolen mills, just as hers was? I like to think I inherited her understanding of wool and fiber, though her craft was far more intimate than the great carding machines I would later oversee.
I had a younger brother James, born a year after me, and we were thick as thieves in those early years. The 1851 Census—you see, even then the government was keeping track of everyone—shows the two of us living with our parents in what I'm sure was a cramped cottage, though it seemed large enough to a small boy. We had little by way of material possessions, but we had each other, and the village community was close-knit in a way that's perhaps difficult to understand in America, where people come and go with such frequency.
The Great Crossing
In November of 1856, everything changed. My parents had made the momentous decision to leave England and seek a new life in America. I'm not certain I fully understood what this meant at the time—I was only eight years old—but I remember the excitement mixed with fear, the hurried preparations, the tearful goodbyes to relatives I would never see again.
We traveled to Bristol, a great port city, and there we boarded a ship called the Osprey. I remember standing on the dock, looking up at this enormous vessel with its tall masts and complex rigging, and feeling both terrified and thrilled. My mother held baby Emma in her arms, while my siblings James, Louisa, and Elizabeth clustered around her skirts. My father wasn't with us on that journey—he had gone ahead some months earlier to find work and lodging—so my mother had the responsibility of shepherding us five children across the Atlantic.
The voyage itself... well, I'll spare you the worst details, but it was no pleasure cruise. We were crowded below decks with dozens of other families, all seeking the same dream of a better life. The ship pitched and rolled with every wave, and many passengers—including my poor mother—were dreadfully seasick. The smell below decks was something fierce. We had little to eat beyond hardtack and whatever thin soup the ship's cook could manage. At night, I would lie in the darkness listening to the creaking of the ship's timbers and wonder if we would ever see land again.
But we did, of course. On November 14, 1856, we arrived in New York City. I stood on the deck as we entered the harbor, and the sight of that city—even then so much larger than any place I had known—filled me with wonder. Buildings stretched as far as I could see, and the harbor was filled with ships from every corner of the world. My father was there to meet us, and I remember how my mother wept with relief to see him safe and well.
Becoming American
We didn't stay in New York but traveled on to Rhode Island, where my father had found work in Burrillville, a mill town in Providence County. This was to be our new home, and we had to learn new ways of doing everything. The American accent confused me at first—I spoke with a proper Wiltshire accent, you see, and the other children sometimes mocked me for it. "Little Englishman," they'd call me, and not always kindly. But children adapt quickly, and within a year or two, I sounded almost as American as anyone.
By 1860, we were well established. I was twelve years old and attending school—a tremendous privilege that I don't think I fully appreciated at the time. In England, working-class children like us rarely received much formal education. My father was working as a farm laborer while he learned his way in this new country, and my mother was busy managing our growing household. They kept having babies, you see—my youngest American-born sister Hannah was just two years old that year.
These were formative years for me. I was growing up during the Civil War, though Rhode Island felt distant from the worst of the fighting. The textile mills where I would later work were booming, producing cloth for Union Army uniforms. I would walk past these great brick buildings with their tall smokestacks and watch the workers streaming in and out at the change of shifts, never imagining that I would spend my entire life in such places.
By the time I was fourteen or fifteen, I was working in the mills myself. We needed the income, as all large families did, and formal schooling gave way to practical education. My first job was as a general helper—sweeping floors, carrying materials, running errands for the skilled workers. But I watched everything carefully. I asked questions when the overseers weren't too busy to answer. I learned.
Finding Your Grandmother
In 1867, when I was twenty years old and working as a woolen mill worker in Connecticut, I met a young woman named Juliet White at a church social. She was just my age—her birthday was only three months after mine—and she was the prettiest girl I'd ever seen. More than that, though, she was accomplished. She could play the piano and organ beautifully, she sang in the church choir, and she had a kindness about her that drew people in.
I was terribly nervous when I first spoke to her. Here I was, an immigrant mill worker with rough hands and no formal education beyond the basics, and there was this refined young lady who could make music that sounded like angels. But Juliet—your grandmother—she didn't see me as beneath her. She saw something worthwhile in this young Englishman who was trying to make his way in America.
We were married on June 20, 1868, in Killingly, Connecticut. It was a beautiful summer day, and I remember thinking that I was the luckiest man alive. We started our life together in Stonington, Connecticut, where I had work at a woolen mill. We had very little—a few sticks of furniture, some pots and pans, our clothes, and each other. But we were young and in love and full of hope for the future.
Building Our Family
The following year, 1869, your grandmother Annie was born. I held that tiny baby in my arms and felt a love so fierce it almost frightened me. I was a father now, with all the responsibility that entailed. I vowed that day that I would work as hard as necessary to provide for my family.
Children came regularly after that. Your aunt or uncle—depending on which of you is reading this—Frederic was born in 1870. Then Everett in 1875, Grace in 1876, Emily in 1879, Charles in 1880, Bessie in 1882, Edwin in 1883, and finally James in 1886. Nine children in all, spread across seventeen years. Our home was always full of noise and activity—babies crying, children playing, teenagers arguing, your grandmother at the piano, and me trying to find a quiet corner to read the newspaper.
I won't lie to you and say it was easy. Raising nine children on a mill worker's wages required constant economizing. Your grandmother performed miracles with our limited budget, making clothes last, stretching food to feed all those hungry mouths, and somehow still maintaining a home that was clean and welcoming. She never complained, at least not where I could hear her, though I knew the work exhausted her.
We faced tragedy too. In 1875, little Frederic died at just five years old. He had been sick with a fever, and despite the doctor's best efforts and our desperate prayers, he slipped away from us. I cannot adequately describe the pain of losing a child. Your grandmother and I held each other and wept, and for weeks afterward, the house felt empty despite having other children. You never truly get over such a loss; you only learn to carry it with you.
My Life's Work
While your grandmother managed our home and family, I was building my career in the woolen mills. I started as a lowly mill worker, but I was determined to advance. I studied every aspect of the wool processing—from the raw wool coming off the sheep's back to the finished yarn ready for weaving. I paid particular attention to carding, which is the process of combing and aligning the wool fibers before spinning. It's exacting work that requires both technical knowledge and a feel for the material.
By my mid-twenties, I had worked my way up to overseer. This was a significant achievement for someone without formal education, and I was proud of it. An overseer is responsible for an entire department—managing the workers, maintaining the machinery, ensuring quality control, and keeping production running smoothly. It required me to be part engineer, part teacher, part disciplinarian, and part diplomat.
My first position as overseer was with the Westerly Woolen Company in Rhode Island. From there, I moved to various mills throughout Connecticut and Massachusetts, always advancing, always building my reputation. I became known throughout New England as one of the finest woolen carders in the region—a recognition that meant a great deal to me. I had started as an immigrant child who could barely speak English, and I had risen through skill and determination to become a respected professional.
I joined the National Association of Woolen and Worsted Overseers, which allowed me to meet other professionals and stay current with new developments in textile manufacturing. Your uncle Walter, Annie's husband, is now the secretary of that organization, and I'm proud to have helped pave the way for his involvement in the industry.
The mills themselves changed dramatically over my fifty years in the business. When I started, many were still water-powered operations with relatively simple machinery. By the time I retired, we had massive steam-powered factories with hundreds of electric lights, complex machinery, and hundreds of employees. I witnessed the complete transformation of American textile manufacturing, and I was part of that transformation.
Moving Through New England
Over the years, we moved several times, following the work. We lived in Stonington, Killingly, Leominster, and finally settled in Putnam, Connecticut. Each move was an upheaval—packing up the household, saying goodbye to neighbors and friends, helping the children adjust to new schools and communities. But textile workers went where the work was, and we made the best of it.
Putnam became our final home, and it was there that we became deeply involved in St. Philip's Episcopal Church. Your grandmother played the organ there for many years, and I directed the choir. Sunday mornings were special times—gathering with our children in our Sunday best, walking to church together, singing hymns that I had first learned as a child in England. The church gave us a spiritual foundation and a community that sustained us through both good times and bad.
I still remember the Sunday services, with sunlight streaming through the stained glass windows, the smell of candles and old wood, and the sound of your grandmother's skillful playing filling the sanctuary. After church, we would gather with other families, the children running around the churchyard while the adults talked about crops, politics, and mill gossip. These were the rhythms of our life—work, family, church, community.
Becoming an American
In 1890, I took a step that I had been planning for decades: I became a naturalized citizen of the United States. I traveled to the Superior Court in Putnam on September 10th and stood before the Honorable S.A. Robinson. There, I renounced my allegiance to Queen Victoria and the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Ireland, and I swore to support the Constitution of the United States.
It was an emotional moment. I was forty-two years old, with a wife, nine children, and an established career. I had lived in America for thirty-four years—far longer than I had lived in England. Yet taking that oath meant formally severing my connection to the land of my birth. I thought of my parents, who had made the brave decision to leave England so their children could have better opportunities. I thought of that eight-year-old boy on the Osprey, crossing the Atlantic into an unknown future. And I thought of the man I had become—an American in every way that mattered.
The naturalization document noted that I had come to America as a minor and that "it was then and ever since has been his intention to become a citizen of the United States." That was true. Even as a child, I had embraced this country and its promise. Now it was official.
Sorrows and Joys
Life brings both sunshine and shadow, and we experienced our share of each. I've already mentioned little Frederic's death in 1875. That was our first great sorrow, but not our last.
In 1911, our son Charles died at just thirty-one years old. He had moved to California and was doing well there, and then suddenly we received the terrible telegram. Your grandmother and I had to grapple with the unnatural grief of outliving our child. Charles was a grown man with a wife and child of his own, and yet he was still our boy, and we mourned him deeply.
My mother, Hannah, died in 1911 and then my father died in 1912. Then came 1913, a year I can barely bring myself to discuss even now. your grandmother's health began to fail. She had been fighting breast cancer, though she had hidden the extent of her suffering from most of the family, not wanting to burden us with worry. On October 1, 1913, my beloved Julia died. We had been married for forty-five years. She had been my partner in everything—raising our children, building our home, navigating life's challenges. The house felt empty without her, even though I wasn't living there alone. I missed the sound of her at the piano, her gentle voice, her steady presence. I miss her still.
Before we had even begun to process that grief, our youngest son James—just twenty-seven years old—passed away in November. He had married just two years earlier and had a baby daughter. The loss devastated me again.
Four years have passed since then, and I won't pretend they've been easy years. Earlier this year, our son Everett died as well. Four of my nine children gone before me—it seems wrong, doesn't it? Children should bury their parents, not the other way around. But life doesn't always follow the order we expect.
Yet there have been joys too. I've watched my surviving children build good lives. I've met my grandchildren—you wonderful children who are reading these words. I've held great-grandchildren in my arms. When I look at all of you, I see the future stretching forward, and I know that Juliet and I created something lasting.
The World I've Seen Change
My dear grandchildren, I was born in 1848, just three years after Queen Victoria ascended the British throne. I've lived through the reign of four British monarchs—Victoria, Edward VII, George V, and now we're in the midst of this terrible Great War. I've seen fifteen American presidents, from Franklin Pierce to your current President Wilson.
The changes I've witnessed are almost impossible to adequately convey. When I was born, most people traveled by foot or horse. Now we have railroads crisscrossing the continent, automobiles on the streets, and I've even seen moving pictures at the cinema. When I was young, news traveled slowly—it might take weeks to learn of events in distant places. Now we have telegraph and telephone, and you can speak to someone hundreds of miles away as if they were in the next room.
I've seen the transformation of entire industries. The textile mills where I spent my life went from water-powered buildings with a few dozen employees to massive electric-powered factories with hundreds of workers. I've watched farming become mechanized, cities grow from towns to metropolises, and gaslight give way to electric illumination.
I lived through the Civil War as a teenager, watching as this nation nearly tore itself apart and then slowly stitched itself back together. I've seen the West settled and wild territories become states. And now, in my final months, I'm watching America enter this Great War in Europe—a conflict on a scale that my childhood self could never have imagined.
What I've Learned
After nearly seventy years on this earth, I've learned a few things that I hope you'll take to heart:
First, hard work matters. I came to this country with nothing but my parents' determination and my own willingness to work. I had no formal education beyond basic literacy, no influential connections, no inheritance. What I achieved, I achieved through steady effort and a commitment to always doing my best work. Don't be afraid of hard work—it's honest and honorable, and it builds character.
Second, family is everything. Your grandmother Juliet and I built a life together based on love, mutual respect, and shared values. We created a family that I hope will remain close for generations to come. Take care of each other. Support each other through hard times. Celebrate together in good times. The bonds of family are the strongest ties we have in this world.
Third, faith provides an anchor when life becomes stormy. Your grandmother and I found strength in our church community and in our belief in something larger than ourselves. Whether you maintain that same Episcopal tradition or find your own path, I encourage you to cultivate a spiritual life. It will sustain you when nothing else can.
Fourth, be kind. Your grandmother had the gentlest soul I've ever known, and I've tried to emulate her kindness throughout my life. Even in my role as overseer, when I had to be firm with workers, I tried to treat everyone with dignity and respect. A kind word costs nothing and can mean everything to someone struggling.
Finally, embrace change while honoring what came before. I've watched the world transform in ways that would have been unimaginable to my parents. Some changes have been for the better, others perhaps not. But the future belongs to those who can adapt while holding onto the core values that make us human—integrity, compassion, courage, and love.
A Final Word
My dear grandchildren, I'm writing this in early 1917, and I know my time is growing short. My health is failing—the doctors call it pernicious anemia—and I find myself thinking often of your grandmother and all those we've lost. I'm not afraid of death. I've lived a full life, and I'm ready to rest.
But I wanted to leave you with these stories, so that you might know where you came from. You are the descendants of English weavers and American pioneers, of immigrant workers and native-born citizens, of textile workers and musicians, of people who crossed oceans and people who put down deep roots. You carry all of that history within you.
When I think back on my life, I feel grateful. Grateful to my parents for having the courage to leave everything familiar and seek a better life for their children. Grateful for the opportunity America gave me to rise through my own efforts. Grateful for forty-five years of marriage to the finest woman I've ever known. Grateful for my nine children and all of you grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Grateful for work that allowed me to provide for my family and contribute something of value to the world.
I hope that when you think of me, you'll remember that I was once a small boy on a ship crossing the Atlantic, frightened and excited about the future. That I became a man who worked hard, loved deeply, and tried to live honorably. That I sang in church choirs and directed hymns. That I understood the feel of wool fibers between my fingers and could tell quality yarn just by touch. That I loved your grandmother with all my heart for forty-five years and miss her every day.
The thread of our family continues through each of you. You are my legacy—far more valuable than any estate I could leave behind. Live good lives. Work hard. Love generously. Take care of each other. And perhaps, someday when you're old, you'll tell your own grandchildren about your grandfather who came from England as a boy and helped build the American textile industry.
That Wiltshire accent is long gone now, worn away by nearly seventy years in New England. But sometimes, late at night when I'm drifting off to sleep, I remember my mother's voice singing while she worked at her loom, and I can hear again the sounds of that distant English village where I began this long journey.
Your loving grandfather,
Thomas Richmond
Clinton, Massachusetts Early 1917
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3) The Infographic created by Google NotebookLM for Thomas Richmond's Life Memoir is below:
4) An Audio Overview (essentially a podcast) created by the Google NotebookLM AI tool) describing this memoir of Thomas Richmond in 1917 is here (click on "Audio Overview" and wait for it to load).
Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page. Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.
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Randy and Linda's Christmas Picture 2025 -- (Not So) Wordless Wednesday #899
This is one of the priceless (to me) images in my computer file folders:
This photograph was taken 20 December 2025. Randy visited Linda in her memory care facility and celebrated Christmas that day along with playing Uno with her. I gave her this Christmas shirt for her birthday and bought myself a Christmas shirt at the same time. Linda is healthy and fairly alert, but doesn't recall much of our life together for over 55 years.
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Tuesday, December 23, 2025
Genealogy News Bytes - Week of 17 to 23 December 2025
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