Wednesday, July 1, 2026

Life Memoir of Herman Schaffner (1851-1921) of San Francisco in Early 1921

 I wrote an AI-assisted ABC biography for the family of my wife's great-grandparents Herman and Mary Ann (Paul) Schaffner in ABC Biography of Herman Schaffner (1851-1921) and Mary Ann Paul (1854-1908) Family of San Francisco, California,  based on my genealogical research over 38 years. 

I wondered what Herman Schaffner might have told his grandchildren in a life memoir in 1921.

(AI Google NotebookLM Infographic for Herman Schaffner's life memoir)

1)  I requested Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.5 to   "Please write a life memoir for Herman Schaffner based on the attached biography, as he might tell his grandchildren in early 1921."

2)  The AI Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.6 memoir (edited for accuracy and completeness) is:  


The Memoir of Herman Schaffner

As told in his own words, San Francisco, 1921

New York Beginnings

I was born in November of 1851, in the city of New York, the only child my mother Susanna ever gave my father. I do not remember her face. She was gone before I had memories enough to keep, taken from us sometime around my third year, and so my earliest recollections are not of a mother's arms but of my father Friedrich's hands—rough hands, a workingman's hands, holding mine as we walked the crowded streets of that great teeming city.

My father was no stranger to starting over. He had come from Germany seeking his fortune in America, and when he lost Susanna, he did what practical men of his generation did: he found another wife to help raise his motherless boy. Martha Matilda came into our lives when I was perhaps four years old, an Irishwoman with a steady hand and, in time, five children of her own to add to our family. I do not recall resenting her. A boy of four does not much care where kindness comes from, only that it comes.

Westward to California

It was Martha who was beside my father when we made the great decision of our lives—to leave New York behind entirely and join the multitudes streaming toward California. I was not yet five years old when we arrived in San Francisco, and so in truth, California is the only home I have ever known. New York remains to me a place of vague impressions—crowded streets, my mother's absence, the rocking of a ship or train I cannot now distinguish in memory.

We became citizens of this country in November of 1856, shortly after our arrival, my father standing before whatever official such matters required, declaring his allegiance, securing for all of us a stake in this new land. I was too young to understand the gravity of it then. Now, looking back across seven decades, I understand it was perhaps the most important day of my young life—the day my family planted itself permanently in American soil.

San Francisco in those years was no proper city as we would understand the word today. It was raw, energetic, still finding its shape after the chaos of the Gold Rush years. But it was growing, and we grew with it. My half-siblings arrived one after another—Matilda, then Frederick, then Louis, then Charles, then little Nellie—until our house was full of the noise and chaos that only a large family can produce. I was the eldest, and though we did not share a mother, I felt the weight and privilege of that position.

A Young Man's Trade

I came of age watching San Francisco transform itself. I was eighteen when the great railroad was completed, linking us at last to the rest of the nation—I remember the celebrations, the sense that our isolated city by the bay had suddenly been tethered to the wider world.

I apprenticed myself to the printing trade, learning the careful, exacting work of the bookbinder. There is a particular satisfaction in that craft—taking loose pages, raw and unprotected, and giving them structure, permanence, a spine to stand upon. I did not know it then, but the discipline I learned binding books would serve me well in later years, when precision and record-keeping became my life's true calling.

These were not easy years for my family. In January of 1875, my stepmother Martha died in Oakland, leaving my father a widower for the second time. He married again within the year—to a woman named Dora—though they had no children together. By then I was a grown man of nearly twenty-five, and my own life was about to take its decisive turn.

Marriage and Family

I married Mary Ann Paul before the year 1876 had run its course. She was a woman of quiet strength, the eldest daughter of a large family herself, with roots in Massachusetts and a childhood spent crossing half the continent—Massachusetts to Chicago, Chicago to San Francisco—before our paths finally converged in this city we both called home.

We began our married life in a household full of her family—her widowed mother Maria, her siblings, all of us together at a house on Acheson Street. Our first son, Paul Frederick, was born there in August of 1879, a babe of nine months when the census man came to our door and found three generations under one roof. I was working still as a bookbinder then, building toward something, though I did not yet know what.

Two more sons followed. Herman Jr. arrived in June of 1881, and then, after some years, our youngest, Frederick, in March of 1889. Three boys to carry the Schaffner name forward into a new century I would not live to see in full.

V. The Knights of Pythias

It was in the work of brotherhood that I found my true vocation. I came to San Francisco's chapter of the Knights of Pythias and discovered there a calling that would occupy the better part of my adult life. I was elected Grand Keeper of Records and Seals for the entire Domain of California, a position I would hold with pride for thirty-five years.

There is something in record-keeping that suits my temperament—perhaps it traces back to those early years binding books, learning that information properly preserved becomes a kind of permanence, a defense against the forgetting that time inflicts on all things. I rose further still, becoming Past Grand Chancellor, and even achieved the curious honor of Past Imperial Prince of the Dramatic Order of Knights of Khorasan—a side degree known for its theatrical ritual, which I confess I rather enjoyed, having always harbored some small flair for ceremony and pageant.

By 1900, we had moved to Castro Street, and I had left bookbinding behind entirely, devoting myself fully to my duties as Grand Secretary. My sons Paul and Herman Jr. had grown into fine young stenographers, working in San Francisco's offices, while young Freddie still sat at his school desk. We had built, Mary Ann and I, a solid and respectable home.

I vividly recall the Great Earthquake and fire that hit San Francisco on the morning of April 19, 1906. We were awakened by a sound like the world ending—not thunder, not any sound you could name, but a grinding, tearing roar from beneath the earth itself. The house bucked like a horse trying to throw its rider. Plaster fell from the walls. The chimney cracked. Windows shattered. We got the children outside—Paul, Herman and Frederick were all still at home, and we stood in Castro Street in our nightclothes with our neighbors, watching the smoke begin to rise from the direction of downtown.

Our home was south of the fires, and did not suffer any fire damage. We spent the night on the street huddled in our blankets. Over the next days, we ventured out to assess the damage, and the full scope of the catastrophe became clear. Downtown was destroyed. Chinatown was ashes. Nob Hill's mansions were ruins. The beautiful City Hall with its grand dome had collapsed into rubble.

My boys walked with me to Market Street and stood staring at the devastation. Everything was gone—just block after block of smoking ruins, brick chimneys standing like lonely sentinels among the destruction. We survived, fixed the house, and lived the rest of our lives remembering that day.

Loss

I must speak now of the hardest chapter of my life. In February of 1908, my beloved Mary Ann was taken from me. Twenty-five years we had shared—a quarter century of marriage, of raising our three sons together, of building a life in this city we both loved. Her death notice called her my "idolized wife," and I will not dispute the word. We carried her from our home on Castro Street to Woodlawn in Colma, traveling by electric funeral car, as was the custom by then—San Francisco having long since closed its gates to the dead, sending us all out to that quiet city of stone beyond the southern hills.

I do not know how to describe the years that followed except to say that a man learns to carry grief the way he carries everything else—one foot before the other, one day following the next. My sons were grown, beginning families of their own. My granddaughter Muriel was born into our household, a small bright light in difficult years. I continued my work for the Pythian order, finding in its rituals and responsibilities a structure to hold onto when so much else had fallen away.

VII. Two More Marriages

I did not remain alone forever. In 1912, on the leap day of February, I married Mary Jane McWhirter, hoping perhaps to recapture some of what I had lost. But fate is not always generous. Mary Jane died that same year, in December, scarcely ten months a bride. I buried a second wife before the year was finished.

Four years later, in 1916, I married a third time—to Fredericka Hartman, a native San Franciscan who brought companionship to my later years. I will not pretend these later marriages held the same depth as my years with Mary Ann, but a man does not wish to face his final years entirely alone, and Fredericka gave me that comfort.

A Life of Service Recalled

As I sit now in the autumn of my years—seventy years old, my hair white, my step slower than it once was—I find myself taking stock of a life that has spanned the entire transformation of San Francisco from rough frontier outpost to great American city. I arrived here a boy of not yet five; I remain here a man of seventy-one, having watched this place become something extraordinary, and having played whatever small part I could in its civic and fraternal life.

Thirty-five years I served the Knights of Pythias as keeper of its records and seals. I take some quiet pride in that span of service—longer than many marriages, longer than most careers. I am told men still speak my name at grand lodge sessions throughout the state, that I am known to brothers in lodges I have never visited. There is a kind of immortality in that, I think—not the immortality of poets or kings, but the more modest immortality of a man who did his duty faithfully, year upon year, and was trusted to do it well.

My three sons have built their own lives now. Paul manages the Valvoline Company's affairs in this city. Fred works as a teller at the Humboldt Savings Bank. Herman Jr. has followed his own path. They have given me grandchildren, carrying the Schaffner name into a century I increasingly understand will not be mine to see grow old.

Final Reflections

I think often of my mother Susanna, whom I never knew, and wonder what she would make of the life her infant son built so far from where she rests. I think of my father Friedrich, who had the courage to cross an ocean and then a continent, planting our family in soil that would prove fertile beyond his imagining. I think of Mary Ann, twenty-five years my wife, mother of my sons, whose loss I have never entirely ceased to feel.

I came to this city as a child too young to understand the journey he was making. I leave it now—for I feel my own time growing short—as an old man who understands, finally, that the journey was the point all along. Not the destination, not the records I kept or the offices I held, but the accumulated weight of years lived in service to family, to brotherhood, to a city that took in a fatherless—motherless—boy from New York and gave him a life worth the living.

San Francisco has been good to me. I hope, in whatever small way a man can hope such things, that I have been good to San Francisco in return.

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Herman Schaffner died on December 8, 1921, in San Francisco, following an illness of some four months. He was laid to rest in Woodlawn Memorial Park in Colma, beside his first wife, Mary Ann. He was remembered by the Knights of Pythias as one of the most prominent members of the order in the United States, and by his obituary as a devoted father to his surviving sons, Paul, Herman and Fred.

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3)  The Video Overview of Herman Schaffner's life memoir, created by the Google NotebookLM AI tool, is:      

4)  I edited the Claude memoir text to correct minor inconsistencies and errors. Every large language model (LLM) AI tool writes descriptive text much better than I can write. The AI tools are very perceptive, insightful and inspiring, creating engaging text in seconds, including local and national historical events and social history detail when requested.

5)  This is historical fiction, based on my own genealogical research and family records. It is what Herman Schaffner might have told his grandchildren in 1921.  

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MyHeritage Has Free U.S. and Canada Historical Records For July 4th

 I reeceived this information from Daniel Horowitz of MyHeritage today:

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It's a big week for family history in North America! To celebrate Canada Day on July 1 and America's 250th anniversary on July 4, MyHeritage is offering free access to over a billion historical records from July 1–5, 2026.

                                     Search U.S. City Directories

                                      Search Canadian censuses

To commemorate the 250th anniversary of the United States, we're offering free access to our U.S. City Directories collection, featuring 1.3 billion historical records from approximately 26,000 directories published between 1860 and 1960. Consolidated records make it easy to follow individuals across multiple directories, and they're especially valuable for filling gaps left by missing census records, including much of the lost 1890 U.S. Census.

For Canada Day, we're making all 15 Canadian census collections, comprising 52.3 million historical records, free to search. These invaluable records reveal where your ancestors lived, who they lived with, their occupations, birthplaces, and many other details that help trace families across generations.






We're also continuing to celebrate America's 250th with our America 250 hub, featuring fascinating resources and American family history stories that bring the nation's history to life through the experiences of ordinary families. New stories are being added all the time, so it's well worth checking back regularly and sharing the hub with your followers if you haven't already.

Enjoy and Happy 4th of July!

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Tuesday, June 30, 2026

Genealogy News Bytes - Week of 24 to 30 June 2026

   Welcome to Genealogy News Bytes, posted on Tuesday afternoon for the past week, where we try to highlight the most important genealogy and family history news  items that came across our desktop since the last issue.    


1)  Genealogy and Family History News Articles:










2)  America250 Family History Stories:












4)  Genealogy Book/Magazine Notices and Reviews:


5)  New or Updated Genealogy Digital Record Collections:






*  175 New Papers Added! [Fishwrap]

6)  Did you miss the last post in this series?  See Genealogy News Bytes - Week of 17 to 23 June 2026.


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Using Artificial Intelligence Tools To Find Possible Family Stories

Genealogists and family historians learn early in their research that "Every person, every famly, has a unique story, and it is our job to identify the stories and tell them."  We were told by Judy G. Russell at RootsTech in 2015 that "A family story dies within three generations if it is not told" (paraphrased, not a direct quote). 

What if we don't have any stories handed down over the generations?  We may know that the family migrated from there to here, or served in them ilitary, or worked as a farmer or blacksmith or carpenter.  

My solution to the problem of "bringing my ancestors to life" and better understanding their lives, is to use an Artificial Intelligence LLM to tell the stories by requesting them to put the ancestral family in a place and time and to use historical events and social history for context to tell a "likely" story about them. That is a "historical fiction" story but it might be the way it was, and the reader gains a bit of historical, geographical and social context to put "meat on the bones" of their ancestral family. 

All I can say is that "I'm trying" -- that's why over the last year and a half I have been writing AI-assisted biographies, memoirs, stories and more about my close ancestors (back through my 3rd great-grandparents, so five generations back - 62 ancestors, 31 families).  I've written at least one story every day.  You can see them all in my Randy's Genealogy and AI page here.

In my post Using Artificial Intelligence In the Ancestor Biography Creation (ABC) Process - Updated (posted 12 April 2026), I suggested that one way to identify interesting family stories could be to ask an Artificial Intelligence LLM to identify "turning points" or "critical decisions" based on a factual biographical sketch.  I wrote:

"You can ask the AI Tools to create suggestions for interesting 'Family Stories' or 'Turning Points' based on the Genealogical Sketch or Biography. Select specific suggestions and ask the AI Tool to tell a 'Historical Fiction' Story ("the way it might have been")."

Here is an example using the biography of my 2nd great-grandfather Devier James Lamphier Smith (1839-1894)

(Devier J. Smith in about 1885 in Concordia, Kansas, colorized by MyHeritage photo tool)

My Prompt to Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.6 was: "Based on the attached biography, please provide 10 stories about Devier's life that could be told, and include a one paragraph description of each story."

The Anthropic Claude Sonnet 4.6 response was:


Looking at Devier's remarkable life, here are ten stories that could be developed into fiction, narrative nonfiction, or family history pieces:

1. The Foundling's Secret: A story exploring Devier's mysterious origins as an infant of unknown parentage, adopted by Ranslow and Mary Smith in Jefferson County, New York. This could be told from multiple perspectives across time, weaving the 1839 adoption with the modern-day DNA discovery suggesting a connection to Isaac and Rosina Lanfear, capturing both the uncertainty he may have felt as a child and the resolution his descendants eventually found through genetic genealogy.

2. An Act of the Legislature: The story of Devier's formal 1866 petition to the Wisconsin State Senate to legally claim the Smith name as his adoptive father's heir, set against the backdrop of his adoptive mother's recent death and his father's will referring to him by both names. This narrative could dramatize the courtroom or legislative chamber scene, exploring themes of identity, belonging, and what it means to claim a family as truly one's own.

3. A Wedding on the Eve of War: A romantic tale of Devier and Abbie Vaux's courtship and marriage on April 4, 1861, just as the nation was splitting apart with the outbreak of the Civil War. This story could juxtapose the intimate joy of a young Wisconsin couple beginning their life together against the distant rumble of national catastrophe, asking how ordinary people built private happiness while history turned around them.

4. Two Small Graves: A poignant story centered on the deaths of Devier and Abbie's young children, Aggie (age two, in Iowa) and Lutie (age two, in Kansas), exploring how a pioneer family processed grief while continuing to move, work, and survive. This narrative could examine the resilience required of frontier parents who buried children in towns they would soon leave behind, never to visit the graves again.

5. The Restless Road West: An epic, multi-generational tale following the Smith family's repeated relocations—from Jefferson County, New York, to Wisconsin Territory, then Iowa, Missouri, Kansas, and finally Nebraska. This story could capture the rhythm of pioneer life itself: the packing of wagons, the selling of land, the starting over again and again, framing Devier as an embodiment of America's restless westward energy.

6. Liveryman and Trader: A business-focused narrative set in Concordia, Kansas, depicting Devier's rise as a livery stable owner and cattle trader during the boom years of the Kansas cattle towns, while his wife Abbie worked as a milliner and his daughters taught music. This story could explore the entrepreneurial hustle of a frontier family pooling multiple income streams, and the social world of a cattle-town livery stable as a hub of commerce and gossip.

7. Alone at Spring Ranch: A deeply personal story built around the Bible entry Devier wrote on November 10, 1889, describing himself alone at Spring Ranch in Cheyenne County while his family was scattered between California and Nebraska. This narrative could dwell on solitude, faith, and longing, imagining his days and nights on an isolated homestead, his reading of Scripture as both comfort and discipline, and the emotional toll of a marriage and family stretched across hundreds of miles.

8. No Roof to Cover Them: An adventure story recounting Devier and John Dunbar's early exploration of the Wano valley in Cheyenne County, Kansas, where the two men reportedly slept on open ground with no shelter. This tale could focus on the physical hardship and camaraderie of frontier scouting, the gamble of staking a claim on unproven land, and the optimism required to imagine a homestead where there was, as yet, nothing.

9. The Inventor's Workshop: A story imagining the practical ingenuity behind Devier's December 1885 patent for a harness rack, exploring how a working liveryman might have identified a problem in his daily business and tinkered toward a solution. This narrative could highlight the lesser-known inventive streak running through ordinary frontier entrepreneurs, men who solved problems not in laboratories but in barns and stables.

10. The Last Days at the St. Charles Hotel: A closing story depicting Devier's sudden illness and death from heart disease at the St. Charles Hotel in McCook in May 1894, including his funeral through the M.E. church and burial under the Ancient Order of United Workmen. This narrative could serve as a bookend to his life, gathering his family, his fraternal brothers, and the McCook community he'd helped build, reflecting on the arc from mysterious foundling to respected pioneer businessman.

Several of these (especially #1, #3, #7, and #8) could work well as first-person fictional pieces in Devier's or Abbie's voice, similar to the approach you've taken with other ancestors like Philip Jacob König.

Each of those suggestions could be a story about Devier's life and family. I have written several "historical fiction stories" about Devier's life and family in:

I may do several of the suggested stories for Devier J. Smith as time passes.

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Emily and Lyle’s Story: Emily’s Birthday Gift, August 1917 (Part 2)

 Here is the latest chapter in the story of the courtship and early married life and times of my maternal grandparents, Emily Auble and Lyle Carringer, who married in June 1918. The background information and the list of chapters of their life together are listed at the end of this post.  This is historical fiction with real people and real events, and is how it might have been.

And now we are up to the third week in August after Lyle started his duty in the Post Exchange at the U.S. Marines Boot Camp.

I asked my AI Assistant Anthropic Claude to tell the story of Emily and Lyle in August 1917 when Lyle had to deal with Emily's birthday gift.  The first part of this story is in Emily and Lyle’s Story: Emily’s Birthday Gift, August 1917 (Part 1).  Here is Part 2 of this story

(AI Google NotebookLM Infographic:  Emily's Birthday Gift) 


Emily and Lyle’s Story: Emily’s Birthday Gift, August 1917 -- Part 1


Sunday, August 19,1917 -- Emily's Eighteenth Birthday

Lyle had been at the florist's concession near the PX by seven-thirty. The selection was modest—the PX stocked cut flowers primarily for officers who needed something for their wives on short notice—but there were yellow roses, and yellow roses seemed exactly right for Emily: warm, unaffected, cheerful without being showy.

He arrived at Hawthorn Street at eight forty-five, Liberty Pass authorizing him until three o'clock. Georgia opened the door.

"She's ready," Georgia said, which told him Emily had been ready for some time. Then her eyes found the flowers and something shifted in her expression—not softening exactly, because Georgia Auble did not soften, but opening slightly, like a window being unlatched. "Those are nice," she said.

Emily appeared behind her grandmother in a moment, and Lyle held out the roses.

She took them with both hands and looked at them for a moment before looking up at him. Her eyes were very bright. "Yellow roses," she said.

"They reminded me of you."

"Warm and a little prickly?" Emily suggested.

"Cheerful," Lyle said. "And exactly right."

Central Christian Church

The three of them walked to Central Christian Church at 820 E Street, arriving as the congregation was gathering—families in their Sunday best, uniformed men scattered through the crowd, the familiar atmosphere of a congregation that has known each other long enough to greet without ceremony.

Reverend W.E. Crabtree had a preacher's gift for making a sermon feel like a conversation, which Emily had always appreciated and Georgia tolerated with the mild respect she gave any competent professional. Today's text was from Romans: "We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope."

Lyle sat between Emily and Georgia in a pew near the middle of the church, aware of the weight of the day—her eighteenth birthday, the war still building itself around them, the uncertain future that lay on the other side of his three o'clock return to duty. The sermon settled around him the way good sermons do, less as argument than as weather, the kind that changes the feel of the air without you noticing until you step outside and find yourself clearer than before.

After the service, Reverend Crabtree shook Lyle's hand and then Emily's, and when Georgia told him it was Emily's birthday, he blessed her with a warm simplicity that made Emily duck her head and smile.

The US Grant Hotel

The US Grant Hotel stood on Broadway like a declaration of confidence—seven stories of California Mission Revival grandeur that had opened in 1910, built by Ulysses Grant Junior with the ambition of a man determined to give San Diego a hotel worthy of its future. The lobby was all marble and polished wood, high ceilings and the particular quiet of a very fine hotel on a Sunday morning.

The dining room was cool and light, set with white linen and proper silver. A waiter in a black coat led them to a table by the window, and Lyle watched Georgia take in the room with the measured appreciation of someone who has seen comparable things and is not overwhelmed but is pleased.

"Happy birthday," Lyle said, when they were seated and the menus had been placed before them.

Emily looked around the room—the white linen, the silver, the window's view onto Broadway—and then at him. "You didn't have to do this."

"I know. That's why I did it."

Georgia studied her menu with the focused attention she brought to most activities. "They have a proper soup," she announced approvingly.

The lunch was unhurried and good—cream of tomato soup for Georgia, roast beef on the menu that Emily chose without deliberation, chicken for Lyle. The dining room filled gradually around them with San Diego's Sunday crowd: naval officers with their wives, a large family celebrating something at a table in the corner, two businessmen who ate and talked simultaneously with the efficiency of men who have no other time to do either.

Emily talked about her plans—finishing her education in the evenings, staying at Marston's for now, what she might study if she had the chance to go further. She'd been thinking about bookkeeping, she said. Numbers had always made sense to her in a way that other things didn't, and if she could add to her Marston's experience with proper training—

"You'd be excellent at it," Lyle said, meaning it exactly. He had watched her for months now, the way she organized her thoughts, the precision with which she accounted for things. She had a mind built for accuracy, which he recognized because he had one too.

"You're biased," Emily said.

"Possibly. I'm also right."

Georgia ate her soup and watched them both with the quiet attention of someone who has decided to approve of something and is confirming the decision in real time.

The Gift

Lyle had arranged with Uncle Davey to pick them up at the US Grant Hotel at 1:30 and take them to Hawthorn Street. At Emily's home, the birthday box waited on the sideboard where Georgia had kept it for three days. Georgia set it before Emily on the kitchen table and stood back with her hands folded and the expression of someone who has been looking forward to this moment.

Emily looked at the white ribbon, the precise wrapping. She looked at Lyle. "Did you actually wrap this yourself?"

"The salesgirl wrapped it. I tied the ribbon."

"That's very nearly the same thing." She began to unwrap it with characteristic care—not tearing, but pulling the ribbon loose and unfolding the tissue paper with deliberate attention, as though the wrapping itself were part of the gift.

The ivory dress lay in its nest of tissue, the small embroidered cuffs, the row of small buttons, the clean modern lines that Lyle had watched her light up for without knowing it herself.

Emily was quiet for a moment. She lifted the dress from the box and held it against herself, looking down at it, and then she looked up at him with an expression that needed no translation.

"How did you know?" she asked.

"Frances knew. I just paid attention."

"You did more than pay attention." She turned to show Georgia.

Georgia looked at the dress with the eyes of someone who has seen a great deal of clothing for almost fifty years and knows what quality looks like. She touched the fabric at the cuff. "Good material," she said. "It will last." Then she went to put the kettle on, because she was not a woman who lingered over moments longer than they required, and because a cup of tea seemed the appropriate punctuation for a birthday in August.

Emily put the dress back in its tissue carefully, smoothed the paper, and came around the table to where Lyle was standing.

"Thank you," she said, and kissed him—right there in the kitchen in front of the sideboard and the empty box and the ghost of Georgia not quite out of the room yet. "It's the loveliest thing anyone has ever given me."

"It suits you," Lyle said. "That was all I knew."

Goodbye at Three O'Clock

The kettle boiled and Georgia made tea and there was the last of the gingerbread from earlier in the week, and they sat in the kitchen and Emily told Georgia about the dining room at the US Grant and the cream of tomato soup, and Georgia asked careful questions about the service and the silver and whether the bread had been fresh. It was all very ordinary and Lyle was aware with the clarity that Liberty Days always brought that ordinary was the rarest and most precious thing he had.

At two twenty, he looked at his watch. At two twenty-five, he looked at it again.

"You have to go," Emily said.

"Twenty minutes yet."

"Then stop looking at your watch."

He put his watch in his pocket. They talked about the following Sunday—his next Liberty Day was not until the week after, he told her, which meant letters in the interim and she would have to write him something worth reading.

"I always write you something worth reading," Emily said.

"You write me about tomatoes."

"Mother's tomatoes are worth reading about. There are four now."

"Four is remarkable."

Georgia, from the kitchen, said without turning around: "Five, actually. The small one on the left came through this morning."

At twenty minutes to three, Lyle stood, put on his cap, and straightened his uniform by reflex. Georgia came from the kitchen and shook his hand with the grip that was more than a handshake. "Come again Thursday week," she said.

"If they'll give me the pass."

"Make sure they will," Georgia said, which was as close as she came to asking him to.

Emily walked him to the end of the front path. The afternoon light of a San Diego August lay gold and long across the street, and the city smelled of sun-warmed stone and eucalyptus and somewhere nearby someone's supper beginning on a stove.

"Happy birthday, Emily," Lyle said.

"The best birthday I've had." She straightened his collar, which did not need straightening. "Write me tonight."

"You'll have the letter Wednesday."

"Write it tonight anyway."

He kissed her, put on his cap again where she had pushed it slightly askew, and walked to the corner. He turned once. She raised her hand. He raised his. Then he turned toward the trolley stop and the barracks and the PX and the long afternoon shift that was waiting for him, and the smile he carried on his face all the way back to Balboa Park was the kind that Corporal Briggs noticed when he arrived and decided, wisely, not to comment on.


That night, between the end of his shift at eleven o'clock and lights out in the barracks:

My Darling Emily,

Happy birthday. You turned eighteen today and I wasn't there for most of it, which is the great unfairness of military life. But I was there for the part that mattered—the dress and the roses and the soup at the US Grant and the tea in your mother's kitchen afterward.

Frances at Marston's chose well. But I chose Emily, and I think that was the better decision.

Five tomatoes. Please tell your grandmother I am genuinely impressed.

I love you. Get some sleep.

Yours always,
Lyle


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This is historical fiction based on the facts that are available for the life and family of my maternal grandparents, Lyle and Emily(Auble) Carringer.  It is based on my research, social history and society norms at the time and place, and it is likely realistic. It might have happened this way.

Stay tuned for the next chapters in this family story.

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The AI-assisted biography of my maternal grandmother is in ABC Biography of #7 Emily Kemp (Auble) Carringer (1899-1977) of Illinois and California. I wrote a story about her life in 1916 in Ask AI: Describe Emily Auble's Life After the Death of Her Father In 1916.

The AI-assisted biography of my maternal grandfather is in ABC Biography of #6 Lyle Lawrence Carringer (1891-1976) of San Diego, California. I wrote a story about Lyle being a young working man in 1916 being teased about being boring in Lyle's Story: Finding Courage in 1916-1917.

Then I wrote seven more chapters of their life together:                   
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Links to my blog posts about using Artificial Intelligence are on my Randy's AI and Genealogy page.  Links to AI information and articles about Artificial Intelligence in Genealogy by other genealogists are on my AI and Genealogy Compendium page.

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